I feel the need to disconnect all the time, especially in a world where thanks to the internet or social media more specifically, we’re increasingly connected to each other.
Some days I’m better at disconnecting than others. Finding that perfect balance presents a challenge.
Recently, I’ve noticed I’m not able to concentrate as long as I used to.
I remember the good old days where I finished books in one day as I would sit down and read for hours on end. I went without interruptions or distractions for long periods of time.
But now I’ll read for about an hour, feel the urge to check my phone, and ultimately, give in to the temptation. Then I’ll get carried away on Twitter or Instagram. Before I know it, I’ve spent half my day on social media. Hyperbolic statements are part of Herminia’s brand. So is referring to myself in third person.
I realize I may not disconnect as much as I used to, but I do my best. It’s important to step away from the screen. My sensitive eyes appreciate it.
Also, I’ve gotten used to carrying my phone with me everywhere I go. Some days I wonder how I’d survive if I left my mobile at home either accidentally or intentionally.
It’s not easy to disconnect, at least not if you’ve grown up so connected. But the difficulty makes disconnecting that much more rewarding.
If you’re wondering where all this is coming from, I’m currently taking three media classes. For fun, I read a chapter of a book, which discussed how social media has changed our ability to connect and concentrate.
So lately I’ve been thinking about my relationship to media and how it affects my happiness, productivity, etc.
As of right now, I’m ready to disconnect and go to bed. I’ll connect or reconnect with the world tomorrow.
I find it hard to disconnect considering I am a extrovert with a tiny touch of introvert.
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That’s valid. I think some people such as myself like to disconnect more than others.
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This sounds sane and healthy to me….though I’m an introvert and rather enjoy a bit of disconnection. 😊
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Me too. I think I’m becoming more of an introvert as I get older.
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I ww
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Starting over…I was so relived when I retired. The need to extrovert in my job was tiring to say the least, even though I loved the work itself. Blogging gives me a little option to be ‘like’ An extrovert sometimes, just enough and no more! 😊
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Oh, I hear you. That’s understandable. I can’t wait to retire. I’m glad you’re a blogger. It does offer a nice balance.
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Interesting thoughts. My generation does not stay connected through media like yours does, but through phone calls, e-mails, and old fashioned cards, notes and letters.
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Mhm, I’m somewhat old fashioned as well when it comes to communication. I like hand writing things.
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The fact that someone took the time and made the effort to write me a note always impresses and pleases me.
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Me too. Especially in this day and age.
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I totally agree with you. I think we’ll all a bit “too” connected. Still, as a hardcore introvert, I find it much better to be on the Internet because I can really express myself. Is that weird? Probably…
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Mhm, I think some people take it too far. It’s not weird to me. I feel comfortable on the Internet, at least on WordPress.
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Some people do take it too far, myself included on some days. It’s a hard habit to break.
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Yeah, those days happen. It helps to be aware.
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You’ve discovered at an early stage that the animal human just isn’t wired for this all the time nonsense. It took Microsoft over 20 years to get it so you’re doing good!
https://transitionu.wordpress.com/2014/08/26/jacked-in/
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Haha, yeah. Sometimes I need to remind myself I’m a human being, not some perfect machine.
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I let this one loose today. It mentions not being perfect.
https://transitionu.wordpress.com/2017/09/27/there-goes-perfection-for-now/
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Awesome. Good job.
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Thank you 🙂
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You’re welcome.
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